When I found out I was pregnant, I had some concerns. Because I was older, I was hesitant about having another baby due to the risk of birth defects and/or disabilities, and I was concerned I would not have support from my partner at the time. Another concern was how my mother and family would react to the news. I went to Corona Life Services and was given a lot of information on what my options were, as I had doubts about continuing with the pregnancy. On ultrasound they were able to confirm my pregnancy and determine how far along I was and when my due date would be. My partner was also present for the ultrasound, and we got to see the baby. When I began prenatal care, my doctor reminded me of the genetic risks to the baby because of my age. I am also diabetic, and I was aware of the complications that diabetes can cause in pregnancy, but I watched my intake and received counseling to help manage my blood sugar levels. Our son, Isaak, was born at 9.5 pounds, larger than the average weight, but otherwise healthy. I was not able to control my family members’ reactions, but in the end, my mother accepted the situation, and my father was actually very thrilled to meet my son.

The baby’s father and I planned to get married and raise our son together. After our son was born, things changed, and Isaak’s father did not really commit to the time needed to help raise him. Things got worse when he decided to move to another county and change jobs to be with another person. It was a stressful time, and I had a lot on my plate, but I was able to get through these obstacles and graduate from a nursing program which will help my son and I build a better future.

My son, Isaak,is about to be two years old. Things are still hard, as Isaak’s father is not supportive or cooperative with visiting his son, and there are still court dates to come. But I’m putting everything in God’s hands. I know He doesn’t want me to worry or spend time focusing on things I can’t control. Tomorrow will be another day and I will stay positive. Everything worked out and I am so grateful to have my son because I firmly believe he is a miracle and God’s gift to me.

-Written by Shannon